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Old 04-13-2005, 12:52 AM
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OMG, Maria! That just shows you've never had one.
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It's like all the emotions you have center up in a big ball and explode somewhere in your chest and you're not sure you can even survive because it hurts so bad.
and after reading this, I don't think I'll ever want one either

Seriously, isn't that the same feeling you get when you are extremely pissed off or something like that? If so, it is just that - emotions. Not a broken heart
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and I was so ashamed of myself that I let the oppurtunity slip through my fingers.
Why should you be ashamed of yourself? You did nothing wrong, other than maybe reading too much into a casual expression. If she was waiting for you to say the right thing and to read her mind, surely she is no big loss, Rob. I think often guys think there is more to it then there really is. The fact that she found somebody else doesn't mean you blew it - you may have never been in the race to begin with (don't mean that in a mean way at all)


(ahhh, I am spilling over with empathy today......)
No she was definately mine for the taking. I could tell with the way she used to look at me, and come up and touch my hands, or just give me random hugs. I know girls often flirt, but I believe her to have been genuine. Just for the record, I'm a guy then tends to think less of it than there really is. With most girls I'm always thinking, "yeah she said/did this and that, but that doesn't mean she likes me", when really she might well have done. She didn't find someone else immediately. It was about 3 or 4 months later, when she had probably decided that I wasn't interested in her, or I wouldn't do anything. Can hardly blame her. I always bottle myself up and keep my feelings inside.


Yeah I agree with Becky. It's exactly the feeling I had for a few months. Your heart seems so heavy and you can hardly take your mind off it. You can't even think of another woman in the same light and you struggle getting to sleep at night.


Edit: Whoa that rhymes, maybe I should write a song.
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and I was so ashamed of myself that I let the oppurtunity slip through my fingers.
Why should you be ashamed of yourself? You did nothing wrong, other than maybe reading too much into a casual expression. If she was waiting for you to say the right thing and to read her mind, surely she is no big loss, Rob. I think often guys think there is more to it then there really is. The fact that she found somebody else doesn't mean you blew it - you may have never been in the race to begin with (don't mean that in a mean way at all)


(ahhh, I am spilling over with empathy today......)
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OMG, Maria! That just shows you've never had one.
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It's like all the emotions you have center up in a big ball and explode somewhere in your chest and you're not sure you can even survive because it hurts so bad.
and after reading this, I don't think I'll ever want one either

Seriously, isn't that the same feeling you get when you are extremely pissed off or something like that? If so, it is just that - emotions. Not a broken heart
You mean u want to see heart cut into two before u believe its a heart break ??

Thing is u can call anything u want, but its changes for person to person... For me i never get pissed off so long for sure(what ever it could be).... And what i feeling now is hardly have much anger in it
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maybe a little bit but not really

and Rob, you sound like me :P
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It's an excrutiating feeling and it literally centers around your heart and it DOES feel like your heart is breaking. I don't think you can realize what it is until it happens. It just HURTS. It's like all the emotions you have center up in a big ball and explode somewhere in your chest and you're not sure you can even survive because it hurts so bad. I remember vividly realizing, "This is what a broken heart is." It's not misnamed at all.

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maybe a little bit but not really

and Rob, you sound like me :P
Good, at least I'm not alone. We gotta grow up and get a grip of ourselves buddy! :P
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Old 04-13-2005, 01:21 AM
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no kidding

im makin strides though i think
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no kidding

im makin strides though i think
Yeah keep saying urself guys till u find another girl and then its all same thing all over again....
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no kidding

im makin strides though i think
Yeah keep saying urself guys till u find another girl and then its all same thing all over again....
Exactly! It always takes me a while though cuz I'm not naturally a talkative person and find it hard to make conversation.
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