Finding someone

*gasp*

don't you roll your eyes on ME!

adrian don't play any silly games or tricks. that's for the movies and never works in real life. i'd keep your mate at a distance from the whole situation too.

hey do you like my buddy is so high school disco. women just think you've no confidence if you're not going to aproach them yourself.

Just go in now n again and see if shes working, go up and just casually say hey u were at drivers ed, have a litle chat about stupid stuff on the course or whatever then ask if she wants to do something sometime.

worst case scenario she says: nope I'm married with 17 children and have a penis anyways

not bad case scenario: she says Ive got a boyfriend or im not that interested, to which willa ctually be "im really busyw ith work or somethign like that.

best case scenario: she says "yes but i must warn you, i get bored watchign movies and usually give blowjobs to the guy im with to pass the time.


as i said, you don't ask, you don't get, you don't get, you don't get

God loves a trier and the people who do get the good girls, excell in their careers or whatever are the guys who take a deep breath, count to 3 then do what alot of other people won't do.

k i see you browsing so i want to know the current goss.

were abouts does she work. if it's like mcdonalds or a clothes shop then it's not going to look as if you're purposelly looked her up plus if you're mate works there then you have that reason for being there.

She works at a Ponderosa resturant. It's not like McDonalds...you have to order a real MEAL there. Gonna get really expensive to go eat there just to see if she's working.

My friend only works there seasonally. Right now he's working construction, but he works there when our wonderful Wisconsin climate shuts down the pool installation business.

Here's my plan, such as it is. Go in Friday about 7:45 (she works Friday till 8pm), talk to the guy at the front desk, say "hey, I've got a friend who works here, you know if she's here and when she get's done?" If that works, great. If he gives me a strange look and says no, we don't give that kind of information out, I can't go back without looking like a nut. On the chance that it works, I say "I figured I'd look you up this summer, you're coming off your shift, wanna get a soda?"

Got a better plan for me?

Adrian

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


i dunno about the asking for her. Depending how the place operates they may or may not tell you but if they don't and someone says hey this dude was in lookign for you then it might look kinda bad but that's really down to how she takes it. nothing you can do about that.

but apart from waiting outside, which probably looks worse, then i don't have much else to work on unless you know anywhere else she hangs out.

you might as well go for it. it's not like you need to see her again if she says no

JBJ's useless trivia number 3847: One of Glasgows former ganglords, one Mr Arthur Thompson, had his house nicknamed the Ponderosa because it was garishly decorated and heavilly extended whilst being in the middle of a scheme.

AAARRRGGG!!!

Would have something to report right now, but my grandparents decided to come. Which would've interupted anything except my grandma decided put off dinner to go to the candy store... oh well. I like it when my grandparents come up...but good grief, I'd like to get this over with.

Gonna have to have my friend look up her schedule again.

Adrian

lol if i said to my gran, can you disappear for a bit i need to see a bird she'd probably whack out a packet of durex and slap me on the back.

seriously

Well, not only would I not say that to my grandma, but that would make me extremely uncomfortable...

I don't mind, really. Its just that when I decide to do something, especially something I'm a bit apprehensive about, I like to do it and get it over with. Sometime early next week then, I guess.

Adrian

If she works as waitress, try to find out when she's on, then take a friend or two down there, if she waits on you, then you've got an easy way in, if she dosen't wait on you, you can always just go over and tell her you were having dinner and recognised her and your in that way too.

Don't try anything fancy or "romantic" at first, just play it very cool like it's no big deal and take it from there. And when your talking to her, always make the conversation about her, let her talk to her hearts content and you'll be in!


Phil

*butts in* ...sowwie

but...

may i ask if most of the girls here like talking about themselves? ( cause um that ^^^ would seriously embarrass me and probably freak me out too )