Thread: Finding someone
View Single Post
 
Old 07-08-2005, 08:42 PM
Adrian's Avatar
Adrian Adrian is offline
Senior Member
It's my post
 
Join Date: 31 Oct 2002
Location: Wisconsin, USA
Age: 35
Gender: male
Posts: 4,805
Default Finding someone

Please excuse if this post is a little, erm, disorganized. I don't do this type of thing often, or, uh, well.

I met someone (a female someone) at Driver's ED about 2 1/2 months ago. Very nice, tried several times to include me (I have this unfortunate tendency to fade to the back of groups and try to soak up as much information as possible, it has something to do with my not liking to stand out) in stuff, funny, etc. I intended to get her email address the last day of class, but circumstances went against me and I wasn't able to.

Summer comes, and I have a bit of free time in between work and college classes. I know where she works (or rather, where she worked as of 2 1/2 months ago) and I'm thinking of trying to find her. Fortunately, my best friend also worked at her place of employment and can help me with that.

My problem is this:Is this a good idea? I do NOT intend to try to get into any type of relationship other than friends (just not the way I operate), but I'm still a little...nervous. Supposing this all works out, what do I say? "Hi, we were in the same driver's ed class nearly 3 months ago, and I thought you were nice, so I came looking for you at work? Wanna hang out sometime?" Is she gonna think I'm a stalker? Am I going to be giving her reason to think I am a stalker? Should I just forget the whole thing? Or am I over-analyzing the situation as it is my usual tendency to do?

Thanks,

Adrian
__________________


What Part Of My Body Hurts The Most
What part of my soul is crying
For crying out loud
What part of my heart is beating
Faster than the speed of love
Is this the way that it's supposed to be
What Part Of My Body Hurts The Most
Come a little bit closer
Come here now
Let's see
Reply With Quote