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Originally Posted by spunkywho
huh? I assume she is around your age, what if she is looking for more than just a platonic friendship? Or do you mean you want to be friends FIRST, which of course is the best way to go about these things  Being nervous is normal and even if it shows, it's mighty cute  |
If anything "extra-friendship" were ever to happen, friendship is a stage it would have to go through first.
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Originally Posted by spunkywho
NO. Why would she think you are a stalker? A stalker is someone who won't let go even after he/she's been told that their attention is unwanted. She hasn't had that chance yet, so, no you are not coming off as a stalker and she most likely will be totally flattered and impressed.
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Well, if someone who'd only seen me for about 22 hours total, two and a half/three months ago came looking for me at my place of employment and asked if I wanted to hang out...I'd be a little weirded out. I mean...what do I say? Suppose all this comes about, then what? Try and find a time when she's on break and order something to drink, talk about what's happened in the last quarter year?
Adrian