It's a bit "disburting", it's true, but it's their life I wanted my kids pretty young, then i could do lots of things with them, but when my daughter will be 17, her father will be 55, i think it's already enough if you know what i mean ... but once again, it depends how the person is fit and how she/he is in her/his mind, i guess the look from the others is the most disturbing in fact.