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Old 03-10-2005, 03:10 AM
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I'll invade ur thread Jim cause I'm very interested in reading some suggestions
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Old 03-10-2005, 03:12 AM
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mon javier you're a bigger tart than me you must have more ideas.
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I'll invade ur thread Jim cause I'm very interested in reading some suggestions
nope you need to give at least one suggestion.
damn u

like someone said before, make sure this girl knows ur not interested (maybe the ppl she talks to about u can give u a hand with that, if she talks to THEM about it)...or simply text her back saying "lady, plz stop texting me"..i think this girl doesnt understand hints, so ur gonna have to be more direct.

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Old 03-10-2005, 03:15 AM
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nope people just tend to act like ****wits and don't take hints when they like someone and it's not shown back.

as I';ve said I couldn't make it more obvious im not interested. ive even replied to a text when i was out one night saying i was trying to shag some bird and i didnt want any interuptions so stop texting. to no avail

and ive had everyone that knows her dropping hints about me liking someone (who actually does exist) and pointing out that I don't like her as anything more than a friend.

ive seriously tried just about everything i can think of.
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Well as a woman, i have no advice for u then, cause i would have a bit more dignity than this girl and just stop when i get the idea that i'm not wanted

Javier will have to save the day for u..
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Old 03-10-2005, 03:26 AM
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and ive had everyone that knows her dropping hints about me liking someone (who actually does exist) and pointing out that I don't like her as anything more than a friend.
some people you just can't be friends with as they will never give up, Jim. Tell her off in all areas, not just the romantic one. I know it sucks, but there are some weird people out there.
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Old 03-10-2005, 03:30 AM
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the thing is we're not even friends really. i know her, i see her now n again at certain parties and if shes working when i'm getting wine but if i'd to list people i regard as friends in order she probably wouldn't even be in the 1st 50.

not that this is the case in her mad wee world. apparently she tells everyone we're like best buddies.

i'm really getting round to the idea that over 90% of women are literally ****ing mental and not just saying this to be chauvanistic.
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i'm really getting round to the idea that over 90% of women are literally **** mental and not just saying this to be chauvanistic.
as a female, let me assure you that 90% of men are equally psychotic!!
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i'm really getting round to the idea that over 90% of women are literally **** mental and not just saying this to be chauvanistic.
as a female, let me assure you that 90% of men are equally psychotic!!
lucky i'm one of the good 10% then
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Old 03-10-2005, 03:44 AM
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cool then.

Back to the original topic, to try to help ol jim out, I had a problem similar to this once except that this girl that kept one bothering me really was my friend so it was a bit hard to tell her offbut I had to do it, plenty of times because I just didn't like her like that she wasn't atractive. How did i do it ?
I started out with small hints like dropping a line or 2 about hating her nasty guts and then saying it was a joke but ending it with a not really. But that was stupid and it won't work.I bassically turned into a bitchy boy, I complained about everything. But again that was back when i was 14 so that probably won't work for you either.
Don't know what to say man, You're pretty much screwed.
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