getting rid of unwanted attention?

don't give up on me man.

let's be reasonable most of us have went through somethign similar and someone must have a decent answer.

last bird that done this to me just kinda got the hint after a while but this just isn't happening now. n as i said, it's not like we're friends in the 1st place so there's not much less contact i could have with her apart from not going to parties i know she'll be at and no bitch is stopping me doing what i do best.

Maybe she's so keen on getting your attention because you are not giving her any. Maybe she just want to be friends with you (desperately). Find some time to alk to her, get to know her better, maybe she's turn out to be a interesting person. If you gave her the attention she worked so hard for, then she might work less hard in texting and calling you and stuff. When you think about it, does any of your close friends text or call you more than she does? (Maybe they do but i have in my head that she texts you non-stop 24-7)

I know to you it's really annoying but think about all the effort she's putting in to be your friend! All the text messages and calls cost her money, so maybe you should do her a favour and tell her that it's okay, you get that she wants to be your friend and tell her to not call or text at certain time when you do not wish to be disturbed.

I worked with her for about 2 years. I'm fairly confident I know her and had I not worked with her, she's not someone I would really want to know or hang out with. relentlessly texting, phoning me when we have absolutely nothing to talk about and annoying me in work hasn't changed this opinion.

and I think giving her a bit of attention will just make it worse. I know as much as the next idiot that when you're into something, you can rationalise just about anything however you want it. oooh she looked at me there she must be into me

it would be like woah jim's phoned me for a change maybe he's starting to like me.

Well then is that case there must be something that you do that makes her want to be your friend, try acting wierd around her, say senseless things or tell her things like you like to run naked under the full moon or something like that, then she'll start to think that you're really not as good as she think you were.

Plan A: Set her up with someone and help find someone else for her to stalk.

Plan B: Get off with someone else in front of her, that should do the trick

I was about posting that ... find someone if you don't have a real somone to pretend to be your significant other

and mis5y. it's me. there doesn't need to be another reason as to why she digs me

^ see. I'm an absolute arsehole and it still doesn't put her off

That's a good one, or at least talk about some girl that you like and how you really hope you and her (the other one) get together...

No, the getting off with someone else in front of her might not work..

But the finding her someone else might!

This guy used to txt me all the time. The same thing as you, he never said outright that he liked me...but I knew. It was really annoying, I ignored some txts, replied to others when I was bored. After a while he got a girlfriend and stopped txting me. They broke up though and he started txting me again. I'm too nice and felt sorry for him so I txt back and now he txts everyday again.

He isnt as annoying as before though.

Im quite worried Jim that you are in such a troublesome situation that you need to post on the internet about it O.o
Just tell her to fack off !