Give an egg?

very true jess

I don't think I could just donate eggs, but I've always thought I would like to be a surrogate, basically because I don't want kids but would love to be pregnant... weird I know...

Do you think you could really bring yourself to hand in the baby afterwards? That must be so heartbreaking after having it growing inside you, even if it was not actually "yours".

You could try the experience with puppies as they did in Friends :P

i wouldnt donate my eggs...if someone was meant to have babies theyd be able to have them. knock me down if you like but thats the way i think


slightly off-topic
ive been told im adopted (dont know if i believe it or not cause where i come from documents arent the main things people tend to think about) but i dont feel any sort of anguish at all. and i would never try and find my ''real parents''(whatever that means) even if i was dieing and needed a transplant or whatever. i can barely cope with one set of parents- why would i want to deal with another?

my mate chris' dad was adopted and hes about 40 ish now and he has never once tried to find out who his biological parents were. so i guess im just trying to say that people dont always react the way they do in books and tv

Yes, I know. In fact I wasn't generally speaking, but speaking of what I would feel if I was in that position. Or how I think I'd feel if I was anyway.

But of course hell would break loose if every adopted child was to go and look for their biological parents!

And me just being nosey and off topic here: you say "where you come from" - I thought you were from England

I don't think so. I've never had a great baby desire anyway, that's why I think I could detach myself from the child. I have actually suggested it a few times to some gay friends I have, would they ever take me up on the offer of course I would need to think it through, but I think I would see it as not mine to keep anyway so then it would be different anyway.

you say that now tash but its totaly different once a baby is born believe me

I am with Russ here, sooner or later someone may experience the need to find out what happened to that child. However, some people may not feel that desire at all.

Yep I've seen many people say they don't want children and once their own baby is born I've seen them almost literally drooling over the little thing. And they've turned out to be the most doting parents later on.

The thing is, that it wouldn't be my child. I think if that is your mind set from the beginning it is different. I have never wanted children, I do not go all soppy when I see them and kids in general annoy me. But I would like to experience pregnancy.. so if I can be pregnant without having the child that would be perfect!