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Originally Posted by Jim Bon Jovi
just out of interest rob exactly how do you manage to blow it?
alot of the problem is that these guys wear their heart on their sleeves and it's just not attractive regardles sof wether you're a girl or a guy.
always wanting what we can;t have n all that
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Well most of the time I say the wrong things at the wrong time, which puts girls off me, or sometimes I don't say anything at all because I'm afraid that I may say the wrong thing. I guess my body language must be wrong too. A lot of girls tend to glance me over and then think I'm not interested before they even bother to talk to me. That's what I think anyway because I'm definately not an ugly looking guy.
Another big problem of mine is approaching girls. I'm so low on confidence and I just know that I will cock it up. I suppose I have nothing to lose though, apart from maybe a little self pride. My only chance really of finding a nice girl is by getting to know her well. I don't get chance to meet people really because at college I do a course will all guys and they're aren't many girls at work either. When I go out it's always too noisy in clubs and stuff so I can never really get talking to anyone there. Maybe I could do with going to pubs instead or something.
OR.....maybe I should try online dating.....
Lol, nah **** that. Never do that! :P