yeah but how do we know what our basic personalities are kathleen? as i said, this time a year ago the most natural thing for me to do would be to hit the guy because that's how i saw myself personally...

it's just kinda interesting me just now because in the run up to my birthdays i always get a little philosophical looking at the past year and i'#m reading a book about events that defined and changed Hitler and Stalin from the beginning of their political life to their deaths so I'm thinking, where they pre-destined to be like that or was it what happened during their time in power that changed and formed them into who they ultimately turned out to be.