i almost got busted yesterday evening....

Very immature, I don't think I'd want my boyfriend getting into fights over some guy touching my shoulder. Also I think it shows weakness to let yourself get into a fight, whether you're a rocker or not.

Tash

hey unless u've been in the same situation it's very hard to comment. my girlfriend is good looking and gets attention from guys all the time when we're out. i can let it go most of the time btu sometimes u have to draw the line.

example: saturday night, nightclubn in glasgow and theres a massive group of us so we're all talking to eac other etc... and my girlfriend and her friend (who also has a boyfriend) end up talking to these 2 student guys we don't know. i looks over, they're just standing talking, they're not looking sleazy or trying to touch them or anything so i think, fair enough and go to the bar.

later on a guy i do know and run in the same circles as him. he went out with my girlfriend about 4 years ago for less than a week but he thinks theres some sort of connection there and that they're soul mates or somethign even tho she can;t stand him, so he's over with his hand round her shoulder being a right sleazy dick. he hadnt even been drinking so he was sober when trying to pull all the drunk girls. anyways i'm about to go over and tell him to **** off but my girl did the job for me so he goes over and starts the same bullshit routine on another one of my mates.

i usually let the guy away with it cos most of the time i feel sorry for him cos he's really just a sad pathetic guy but then i start thinking, well he's supposed to be a kinda mate of mine, he knows im going out with her and he;s still doing all that shit.

my girlfriend told me yesterday that when we werew waiting in the Q to get in he grabbed her boobs and when she told him to get the **** away he said but they're really nice and she sed i'd kick his head in if i'd heard him saying that and the only reason she didn't tell me was cos she didn't want me to set about him in front of the bouncers in the club but we will be exchanging words next time i see him.

moral of the story, fair enough jabbing someone for putting their arm around ur girl is a bit extreme but we all know wot guys r like and most of them r just wanting their rocks off and don't care if the girls got a boyfriend or not so in some situations u do need to get physical.

Phew, there was me thinking for a minute that your girlfriend wasn't a rockchick

I honestly think what you did wasn't necaissary at alllll !!!! If you were my bf I would be very angry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well your life of course

as i said, fair enough giving him a hook for talking to her was a bit off but in certain circumstances u have to take action and whereas that may not have been one of them, u can't say hitting a guy for sleazing upto ur girl is wrong in every case.

Wacking someone for touching your birds shoulder is in my book stupid. If he was touching anywhere else, than fair enough.

I doubt your bird would have been impressed, sorry mate, but I don't think you got any respect in here for what you did. None at all.

I gotta agree with Choc here, that's just stupid. Immature and stupid. If my bf (had I one) would do that, he'd soon become my ex. It's not rock'n'roll. Ok, the music and the night and the drinking was rock, but the punch wasn't... Especially for something like that...

Why do guys always think if they're "men" enough to punch someone with a beer glass just out of the blue the girls are impressed... I don't know about your gf, maybe she's one of the few who would be, but she's definitely in the minority there.

Maybe Jana and I aren't pretty enough for someone to be bothered to smack a guy in the face "for us" or maybe we're not rock enough to appreciate this sort of thing... If that's the case, I don't care about being not pretty enough or not rock enough...

Has nothing to do with that!! Men just always seem to solve any difference with fighting. I really would not want my man to do that for me.. unless, I'm being physically attacked. Otherwise violence has no justification.

Tash

Has nothing to do with that!! Men just always seem to solve any difference with fighting. I really would not want my man to do that for me.. unless, I'm being physically attacked. Otherwise violence has no justification. You just pick the right men, who don't need to solve everything with fighting.. be proud of that!!

Tash

I coudln't agree with you more Laura !!!!! If my boyfriend would that (if I had one ) he would soon find the way-out !!!!!! Wouldn't be impressed if my boy would do this for that reason at alllll !!!!!!!!!