Originally Posted by spunkywho

Being in an isolating relationship can feel much more lonely than NOT being in that relationship. Whether or not you die alone has nothing to do with a mate. Being in a committed relationship does not guarantee you that that person will outlive you, nor does not being in a relationship mean you have not friends at the time you die.

Besides, I believe that you an only find true and healthy love once you yourself are true and healthy. Nothing wrong with taking a few years to get to that place and maybe stuff will happen when you least excpect it.

(ok that's drippy bullshit but it might make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside for a few minutes )