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Finally, simply because you love someone with every bit of yourself does not mean that person is good or right for you.
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On this we agree 1000%
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You could very well be pouring yourself into a bottomless pit that leaves you a drained shell.
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Hence my being proud at feeling confident and having a life again.
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That isn't how a love story goes, it's a horror story.
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Here's where we differ. I broke up with C (admittedly not after trauma on THAT scale), I didn't stop loving her, I haven't cut her out of my life, if anything we can offer each other more from a distance. We are now far more free to be honest with each other, we know each other inside out and will always support each other when we need it. I've no doubt at all that will be there for the rest of my life.
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Exactly how do you deal with it when they tell you you're a worthless loser that no one else will ever love?
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Why did you take so much? (An honest answer to this may tell you how you end up codependent).