I don't think I am overly jealous, but I do have to fight the urge at times. On the other hand, the times I get jealous are times I probably should be ....

I've had extremely jealous boyfriends and believe me, it ain't good. You REALLY don't want a jelous boyfriend/girlfriend. They are a pain in the butt and, honestly, simply psychotic.

There are many women I know that aren't even allowed to go out by themselves because their husbands won't let them.... it's insane.

One of the best things I can say about my ex is that he was not jealous in any way (almost to an extreme - I could kiss a guy and all he'd say is 'was that necessary?' lol)

As for your question, no, I don't think you should act jealous - just be sure you show interest and give compliments so she knows you really like her. All jealousy is is low self-esteem ... nothing to desire.