Well, Ryan I'm sorry that things aren't going so well for you and Heather right now. I know that I wouldn't be able to be that far away from Mike for that long. I would wait and see what happens when she comes out in a few weeks. That way you guys will be together and you can see how things are when she's with you. I wouldn't stay at home all the time because she doesn't want you to go out though. It's not fair to you for her to be able to go do whatever she wants, but you can't. If she doesn't trust you, then there is something deeper wrong. I've been with Mike for 14 years (Today!) and whenever anyone asks us how we've lasted, our answer is that we always trusted each other. I hope things work out for you!