I'm sorry for your loss. Sometimes things work out that way though. My family lost a 92 year old grandmother only a month after my daughter was born - a third and late in life child. It was very nice that she got to see her great granddaughter - the only girl in the family just before she died.

Sometimes talking about it helps - even to strangers. Sometimes you can say things to people you don't know that you wouldn't say to someone who knew you well.

Kathleen