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Old 08-19-2003, 12:38 AM
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alright, i was just asking

you are only 20years old
yes i know....but i was mature enough....much of it has to do with my parents not approving over her...and most probs wont ever let us 'marry'...so, not wanting to let our love die we went ahead and did it..her parents love me...sigh i wish my parents loved her....
i hope everything works out well for you in the end!!


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Old 08-19-2003, 12:55 AM
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cool jag did u do the whole come up here to get married cos u didn't have ur parents consent.

glad ur happy but y do ur parents not like her?
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Old 08-19-2003, 12:57 AM
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cool jag did u do the whole come up here to get married cos u didn't have ur parents consent.

glad ur happy but y do ur parents not like her?
i dunno wot u mean by 'come up here' man...

no...different religion and that crap...
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Old 08-19-2003, 01:03 AM
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well if ur 20 just now u must have been 17 (maybe 18 so it wouldnt matter) but u can get married at 17 here whereas u need ur parents permission in england so alot of young people come across the border to get married.
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Old 08-19-2003, 01:11 AM
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well if ur 20 just now u must have been 17 (maybe 18 so it wouldnt matter) but u can get married at 17 here whereas u need ur parents permission in england so alot of young people come across the border to get married.
no i didnt come to this country on a boat :P

born and bred here and as british as anyone. my wife is from florida actually, she has is finishign her fegree there, and me here...and we will live togehther in canada (finally!)...all cos two ppl in love huh?....quite sad that asians have to go thru such crap....and yes we have met and lived and loved...i just came back here to finish my course off
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Old 08-19-2003, 01:18 AM
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i meant scotland. alot of young couples from england come over to gretna green cos they can marry at 17 without there parents permission.

did someone not do it on corrie a few years ago?
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Old 08-19-2003, 01:21 AM
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i meant scotland. alot of young couples from england come over to gretna green cos they can marry at 17 without there parents permission.

did someone not do it on corrie a few years ago?
i didnt know that about scotland at all.,,yeah i think yr right about the corrie thing..ppl ge married alot younger then me too u know...many mnay ways around the system
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Jag - My husband and I married at 20 and we will be married 35 years this year. Everyone told us that we were too young also - blah - blah - blah. Stick to your guns (as we say) and support each other. Not only should asians not have those problems - nobody should have those problems. When two people love each other and are willing to work out racial or religious differences - their families should support them, not hurt them. And yes - I'm a parent with marriage age children and I still believe that.

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well if ur 20 just now u must have been 17 (maybe 18 so it wouldnt matter) but u can get married at 17 here whereas u need ur parents permission in england so alot of young people come across the border to get married.
no i didnt come to this country on a boat :P

born and bred here and as british as anyone. my wife is from florida actually, she has is finishign her fegree there, and me here...and we will live togehther in canada (finally!)...all cos two ppl in love huh?....quite sad that asians have to go thru such crap....and yes we have met and lived and loved...i just came back here to finish my course off
Jag ur full of surprises. It would have never happend in India. guy has to be 21 and gal has to be 18 to get married here. Yeah u made a good choice by going to canada and settel down. By the way u or ur wife are working??.
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Old 08-19-2003, 02:15 PM
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Coming from someone who lives in a house full of people, I think id quite like to live alone. Pleasing myself and doing whatever, and if you do want company you can always invite people round, but you can also tell them to go too In reply to almike, im sure things will improve for you. Its always hard at first but hopefully once you get used to the situation and meet new people things will look a lot brighter. Your family will always be there for you even if you dont live with them, Iv found this out myself recently. Good luck in your new home and let us know how it turns out :P
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