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Old 10-22-2003, 06:29 PM
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if u want to go in the detail..get in the ring..i"m a science student...
so am i
So when can we have this fight???. :P
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Old 10-22-2003, 06:40 PM
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all of u science geeks shut the **** up or us accountants will kick ur asses



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Old 10-23-2003, 04:27 PM
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ey slow down english boy... ...or science can destruct anyone...
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Old 10-23-2003, 06:41 PM
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ey slow down english boy... ...or science can destruct anyone...
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Old 10-23-2003, 07:48 PM
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No, I don't think so, not for me, that's for sure!
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Old 10-24-2003, 09:11 PM
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I'm not vastly experienced as I have never been properly in love, but I think it is possible to love someone without wanting sex.

If I see a really good looking girl, but something about her (either the way she looks, dresses, talks or acts) makes me feel that I couldn't love them then I'm not intersted in a relationship, but the lust, or sexual drive in me might make me want to have sex with her, but just sex.

Some girls who might be just as good looking may appear totally different. It's not often that I see people like this, although I did see one last night. She was beautiful, and there was something about her that told me that I wanted to love her. Everything seemed spot on. She was very pretty, with a nice body, but was really well dressed. She was wearing a black dress, which didn't expose too much flesh, but just enough. She looked like a really nice girl, just with the way her face looked and how she almost kept a smile on her face all the time. My eyes were glued to her, but unfortuntely I couldn't talk to her because she was with her boyfriend. I can imagine that if I hooked up with a girl I felt this way about then I would not want to have sex with her until at least 4 weeks into the relationship, and even then it would only be clean sex only (hope I don't need to define what I mean by clean). I may even be able to go without sex from her so long as I loved her and she loved me the same, but I suppose that I would always be wondering what she was like in bed, and in the end desire sex from her.

I think that maybe you can only go for a while without sex, and in the end you do desire it.

Now here's another question: Say if you were unable to have sex for some reason, would you still be able to love someone?
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Mmmmmm ... Rob ... so, yes, it's possible but not for too long
And for your question, well, it's difficult, but i don't think we can control this feeling, i mean if you can't have sex for some reason it's one thing, but love, who can't feel love ?
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Now here's another question: Say if you were unable to have sex for some reason, would you still be able to love someone?
I will try my best to satsify my partner what ever method i know, if i'm not able to satisfy her in traditonal method.
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Now here's another question: Say if you were unable to have sex for some reason, would you still be able to love someone?
I will try my best to satsify my partner what ever method i know, if i'm not able to satisfy her in traditonal method.
oh just go for it brother!
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I have a male best friend who I love to death, we have been friends for nearly 12 years and we were close from nearly the beginning. But although I love him, I could not have sex with him. We've always explained as in there is a fine line that men and women sometimes cross that prevents you after that from having or wanting sex once that line is crossed. I love him like a brother and I guess I would never want to jeopadise that friendship for one night of pleasure. So yes, love without sex is very much possible, but both parties need to be at the same place emotionally and both have the same wants out of the relationship.

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