Marriage and Living together.....

Is it better to live together before marriage?.

I don't have anything aganist the person who live together, but i like to keep somthing for marriage too. You know at first i'm marring coz i trust and understand well other person and i don;t need to know each and evry detail of that person before get married , i think that way it keep some excitment and challeange for marriage. There won;t be any meaning for marriage if u get up just like everyday and do same thing u been doing after first night lol. I'm sure lot of u disagree with me.

What u guys think?.

nah it hink it's a good idea because you'll know if you get on each others tits living under the same roof.

easier and alot cheaper to find out it doesn't work before you've got a ring on your finger.

Why u need marriage then...? Living together is anything differnt then marriage?. I think there won;t be anything left for marriage

point is. seeing everyone at night time or every weekend is alot different to living in each others pockets.

if you're married and move in and find out that it's hell then it's alot harder to walk away.

as i said, most times marriage is just show off. if two people are together and love each other they don't need to prove anything, to anyone.

My point is why u need to marry after living together anyway?. Marriage is need to be bit myserious and something exciting in it IMO.

I'm with Jim on this one.
I think for the most part marriage has to do with religion and the couples belief and or family tradition.

I'm not saying get married blindly or arrange one. But u can be in a relationship not living together right?. I just want to keep something for marriage..

Is it bad to have family tradition?. I think u should keep spme of ur traditon if not everything.

Of course you can. All i'm saying is that living together is ALOT different to not and if you get married then move in and find out that it doesn't work or it's unbearable then you're kinda stuck,