trying to find the right words to say is so hard. i am so sorry becky. reading this may not help at all, but you have my deepest sympathies and i feel for you and your family. don't keep things bottled up. cry if you want to, it really does help. you just have to keep strong and focus on all the great things about your dad. what everyone said was really touching about your dad and you have to hold on to these memories.