none of u know me

about 10 years ago, i had a mate who jumped into a river and drowned and i knew his sister well. Tonight i was in a night club and met ppl who knew his sister and him, and for some reason tonight i have gone into some kind of depression and i should not..... its been to long... I dont know why i am even typing this tonight, what am i looking for i dont know!!!!!! i just feel tonight really bad and I dont know why. I am sorry

I understand why you posted, sometimes you just have to tell someone something. This is one of those things. You didn't know who to tell, you just knew you needed to tell someone about your experience and feelings, to let it out and get it off your chest.

I’m sorry about your friend. The reason why you feel depressed is because you and him must have been very close at the time, and talking about them (which I’m sure you did) made you remember him and miss him all over again. Its a natural reaction to miss something after its gone, no matter how long ago it was lost. Try to think of the happy times with him and his sister. Those thoughts might make you feel better. As long as you keep thinking of him in a positive light, he never really left your heart.

Again, you have my condolences.

Maybe all you need is to grieve. You may have never really done that.

It is always hard to think about the people that are long gone. If you were close, you'll always miss them. However, look there is a positive side, you are a very lucky person to have had someone in your life that made you feel - even after such a long time. Not everybody can say that.

Sorry to hear about your loss.

I hope you're feeling a bit better today Omar. Hope to catch up with you next time youre on aol.

Take Care

Carli.x

Sometimes it juts helps to let yourself feel. I think loss never really goes away when it's someone so important to you. It's certainly a feeling I can relate to this year. Maybe it will help you to know that there are people out there who care even if they don't really know you and will listen.

Becky

It helps to let it out even if you dont know the people your telling and people do care even if they dont know you because they put themselfs in your shoes or can relate, i know what its like and im very very sorry. I hope you feel better soon just try to keep positive and happy. Good luck.