ah teen drama. i can't wait to get shot of it too.

It really depends on the situation. being in a loong distance relationship is hard. id never do it, i think someone that takes me longer than half an hour on a bus to see is too much hassle and distance.

but anyways. it all depends how much faith you have with heather and how much you want to be with her as opposed to trying with this other girl.

You might leave it and heather moves back later or you move out there get married blah blah or, you find out down the line that shes up in kansas or whereas she is letting anything with a pulse mount her. wouldn't be the 1st guy on the internet ive came across that has passed a chance up with someone for a long distance relationship and had exactly that happen to them.

alternatively you could have a go of it and it could be great and you get married etc... or you have a go and it works out ok for a while then goes to shit too.

to be honest its probably goin to be option 2 or 4 and in a way that's a good thing because it means that it's not worth getting too wound up about. trust me, i laugh at the state of myself with women ;last year never mind when i was my age and ill laugh at myself just now when im older.

do what you think you should do. dilemas aren't supposed to be obvious to solve but think with your head more than you do with your heart or dick.