Hey girls there's nothing wrong with spending lots of time on your hair. Hair is probably the first thing I notice on a girl, even if I'm not paying attention all that much. Nice hair then makes me look further.

As for me I've had short back and sides for a while now, and am growing it long. Used to take me 2 minutes to gel it in the past. It's quite long, and still takes 2 minutes to gel now, but I'm in limbo at the moment. I really don't know what to do with it until it gets longish. If I don't use gel it's too fluffy, unless it hasn't been washed for a day or so. I'm going for hair like Tom Cruise if I can. Although his hair is quite thin, where mine is rather thick, so I may have to go for the JBJ look. Make no odds, they both have cool hair.