I used to have a guy that drove me from club to club --- anywhere really. He would also strike up converstations with guys I pointed out only so I could get to know the guys. Yes that wasn't particularly nice of me, but hey --- everybody is allowed to be a Bee sometimes

Btw, I tried to avoid the BJ thing as long as possible, but eventually had to tell him that it most definitely WON'T happen. It was the last time I saw him, but I've learned later that he kept a photo of mine in his wallet and told all sorts of people I was his girlfriend

Does that qualify as pussywhipped???