spendign time with a bird instead of your mates is different from beign pussywhipped.

tonights example:

was out weith the lads tonight.

one mate i went to school with who no one has seen for a good few weeks to months because of his bird was out going at it hardcore sayign she didnt mind even though he see;s her everynight

on the other hand. another guy i havent seen since we left school a coupla years ago was skint but got a bit of luck when he ran into his missus, had to beg for their joint bank card, then hang around being nice to her when she was totally ignoring him.

guess who i'd rather be? and even at that, the only advantage numero uno has is regular sex.