physically u can be ready from before ur in high school but wether ur actually mentally ready for it's a completely different thing. haviong sex is alot mor ethan just sticking certain bits of ur anatomy in certain places u know theres the whole closeness and affection of it all. i think kids that have sex early don;t actually get this and they just think it's something fun to do (which it is too)

what i think though is that ur mums more worried about the fact that u 2 are girls and this guy is a little older than her. some guys (not all but alot of them) really are only after one thing whereas girls want more out of it and it's very easy for them to be mistaken as to the guys intentions. she's just being protective and it's a good thing.

me and my girlfriends parents r pretty cool about us in that sense u know. they don't hand out condoms or anything but they know we have sex, her mum knows she son the pill, if my mum finds any condoms lying around the house she dicreetly asks who;s it is and thats the end of the story u know. we've been going out for nearly 2 years and were best friends way before that so they know we're nmot stupid.

ur friends mum sounds real cool and when ur thinking about having sex maybe it would do u some good to go and talk to her about it rather than ur mum who's just scared which is totally reasonable.

lol the only advice my dads ever gave me was a drunken conversation talking about football or music or something and he just turned round n said. Jim, be careful, u know what i mean.

so much for the birds n the bee's eh lol