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Old 08-14-2003, 05:18 PM
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My mum and dad were always very open about sex, i found out about it when i was 7 years old, my mum explained it to me and then bought me a book all about growing up, as for what age you can/ can't do it, it depends, i started puberty when i was 10!!! also a girl in my primary school class had been having periods since she was 7 so it really is up to nature i suppose.

All my friends were pressured into the drugs, drink and sex thing when they were teens, as was i, however i didn't succumb to the sex and drugs, i did have the odd drink though. Most my mates lost there virginity to the local bike ( everyone has had a ride ) and she was only 12 when most my mates were 14!

I started dating a girl when i was 15, she was 14 and neither of us had been with anyone before, and our first time was with each other when we were 15/14, albiet both of us were underage. We were responsible, we had been dating for three months and it was a very nice thing to happen, not a rumble in the bushes like my mates.
My mum and dad let her stay all the time, we shared a bedroom, although not a bed as far as my mum and dad were concernec, although years later my mum told me she knew we were sleeping together.

I didn't expect her to go on the pill so i was responsible for all the contraception side of things, we stayed together for 4 1/2 years after that, and only ever went with each other.

I agree and i think its great that this persons parents are responsible enough to allow them to make their own desicions in life, the whole reason why my mates did what they did was because sex was a taboo word in their household whereas mine wasn't, i was also lucky enough to keep myself for someone special. Its best to have support like this rather then think that yiu have to sneak out of the house, thats when and how sex becomes a dirty thing because it is scorned upon.
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