The above two people said it all Adrian - just go for it.

You're already agonizing over it - wouldn't it be better to know one way or the other? I know that probably sounds like pat advice to someone your age who feels a bit insecure - but trust us - we have all been there. Most of us came to the same conclusion - nothing ventured, nothing gained.

If nothing comes of it - Jim has the right of it - **** it she's gone in a month and a half.

Kathleen