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Old 06-15-2005, 07:36 PM
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alot of people do jobs just for the money but you need to be at leats somewhat aware of what the porn industry involves if you're going to get into it.

I don't doubt for a minute that there's plenty of people who have ended up in porn who are incredibly jaded with life as a result but the same can be said with just about every person I know who's been in the music industry for a decent amount of time., same for teachers, cops etc....

plus some girls just generally like being whores and if someones going to give them money to do it then why not?

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I mean if she wants to get paid to let some guy jizz in her face or have a horse mount her and generally get degraded then let her.
well, the thing is that these women don't really WANT it .... it's the money and for the most part their screwed up life that made them go out and exploit their bodies like that.

Generally speaking, the normal well-adjusted people don't go into porn, they just watch it
how do you know maria? they might get turned on by doing it, plus they earn money while doing what they enjoy
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plus some girls just generally like being whores and if someones going to give them money to do it then why not?

Aids? Sexual transmitted diseases?

Not enough money for me to put myself in that risk category. And yes, the porn industry does have a tremendously high ratio of STDs and HIV. Even though they've finally implemented stringent testing.


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how do you know maria? they might get turned on by doing it, plus they earn money while doing what they enjoy
I only know this from the Howard Stern show. LOL. I've never met or known anybody who is in the porn industry, so I really don't know what motivates one to do this sort of stuff.

I just know that all the girls that Stern brings in that are in porn usually have a rape or other sexual abuse history.

Liking lots of dirty sex doesn't mean that one has to sell their videos and do it for the public



I have no problem with family members watching porn, but I wouldn't want them to end up as a pornstar.... Would you?
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If it wasn't for Kathleen, I'd blame this liberalism on you all being European :P
Kathleen's a closet-European. She's spent more time in Europe than the population of the UK, at least according to the population of the UK.

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Ok - I guess I'm out of the closet Keep in mind Maria that this is the USA - home of the original puritans I have a small circle of friends that think as I do, but the majority of people I run into here in Jersey (which is a pretty liberal state) think as your co-workers do

As a followup - since this thread was here - I asked my daughter how much porn she really searches out on the internet. She said that when she was younger (she is almost 16 now) she used to read and look at many sites - mostly to figure out what was what. As can be figured - most of the male porn sites didn't do much for her. She says that she has found a "few" sites that cater to women and she checks them out occasionally but not on a daily basis. (Probably the same sites that I check out :P ) It didn't seem to bother her that I asked and she was happy to talk about it so I guess the lines of communication are still open - always a good thing.

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As a followup - since this thread was here - I asked my daughter how much porn she really searches out on the internet.
Kathleen, I can only hope to have that sort of a relationship and open communication with my son as you do with your kids. Any special advice/tip?
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Good to hear, Kathleen. I always could talk this open about sex with my mum and I planned to do the same with my son.
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For some reason i just can't talk sex or discuss that topic with my sisters or with my parents and not even with my brother in laws And its always with friends for me though...
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Kathleen your a cool mum
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Holy shit kathleen you're the coolest mum ever.

the best i got from them with regards to the birds n the bees was my dad saying "be careful or you'll **** you and whoever elses life up, you know what i'm talking about"

I mean they know I've been sexually active for years now but they still can't talk about it.
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For some reason i just can't talk sex or discuss that topic with my sisters or with my parents and not even with my brother in laws And its always with friends for me though...
Yes, same here But I think Kathleen's way of tackling things and keeping trust is the best thing. Your daughter is very lucky, Kathleen
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