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Old 10-20-2006, 11:39 PM
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Warning: As usual this will be a long post. I am such a drama queen. But I need some advice.

And yes before anyone posts it I know this is a LONG post!


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Albany, NY 12/12/05. JBJ to me from the stage: "You been a good girl this year?" (Reads my sign) "Jon, It's almost Xmas I've been a very good girl! Play Blood on Blood please!" (cue me on the big screen) JBJ: "How good have you been? Oh My God!" (laughs, more teasing) JBJ: "You want it huh, you want it huh? Blood on Blood just for you, the good girl in the front row? The all request hour, the girl in the front row has just asked for Blood on Blood, ok, Merry Christmas young lady!" Amazing <3
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Old 10-20-2006, 11:53 PM
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get to know him (dont stalk thoug)
find out the things you have in common

these may take a while but then

start hanging around with him
ask him to go out with your friends
ask him out alone
and then you know

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o but as hes a man just close your mouth and open your legs and the jobs a good 'un
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Albany, NY 12/12/05. JBJ to me from the stage: "You been a good girl this year?" (Reads my sign) "Jon, It's almost Xmas I've been a very good girl! Play Blood on Blood please!" (cue me on the big screen) JBJ: "How good have you been? Oh My God!" (laughs, more teasing) JBJ: "You want it huh, you want it huh? Blood on Blood just for you, the good girl in the front row? The all request hour, the girl in the front row has just asked for Blood on Blood, ok, Merry Christmas young lady!" Amazing <3
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Old 10-20-2006, 11:57 PM
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ive just told you what to do
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Old 10-21-2006, 12:48 AM
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Please Lizz - it's the 21st century - why wouldn't you make the first move. If you want something - fight for it - don't just sit back and assume he'll go back to his ex. For one thing you only heard secondhand that his ex is e-mailing him. For another - you can give him something to think about even if he is considering going back to the ex.

Why sit around and hope that he will sort everything out. If you want something sorted out - make the first move. That doesn't mean you might not get your ego stomped on but those are the risks in life. Some of them are worth taking rather than sitting around and being passive.

Wouldn't you regret letting the whole thing rest rather then stating your feelings?

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Old 10-21-2006, 01:01 AM
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^theres always rejection

but regret is a bitter pill
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Not that I am one to give advice on dating and opposite sex and such, but I am with Kathleen: stop waiting and playing guessing games and go for what you want. Make the first step. See what shakes up. You are in control of your world. You may not be in control of his feelings, but you will never have to second guess yourself about what could have been......




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^theres always rejection

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sometimes you are quite likeable!
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Probably chiming in a little too late, but I read the original post before it disappeared into the ether and my advice is the same as everyone else's:Go for it.

Like Jim has said a thousand times "God loves a trier."

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Like Jim has said a thousand times "God loves a trier."

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