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Old 08-28-2003, 09:25 PM
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Default Somebody help me...please

Hey everyone
Im a bit down in the dumps at the moment. I have fallen out with my (joint) best friend. She means the absolute world to me...

We always get on absolutely fantastic and never once argued. At the start of this week however, we had a litle bit of a row, but got over it straight away. Then yesterday morning we had a bit of a bigger argument, but was pretty much alright for the rest of the day. Then right at the end of the day (working day, because I work with her, shes actually one of my managers on my department) we had another argument. This time it was a MASSIVE one, and we both said a lot of things we shouldnt. I had, had a bad day overall and I guess, she just happened to be the person who was closest to me, when i really couldnt take it no more and i really had a go at her. I know I shouldnt have done...I know i was the one in the wrong.

We left work yesterday without talking to her, so I was really upset and sent her a txt message an hour or so later saying how sorry I was, and i was completely out of order flipping on her, while knowing she was the one i really didnt wanna hurt because she is my best friend.

She didnt reply to my message, and in work today. she completely blanked me, and we were both really busy and to be honest, didnt even have time to talk to one another.

I think we have been spending..perhaps TOO much time with one another lately and It was just bound to blow up in my face sooner or later. That always seems to happen.

I have thought about sending her flowers to say im sorry, i know she would like them, but at the moment i dont know if she wil throw them back in my face, because she is really angry with me (which I totally understand) and now...im just kinda scared that she will never talk to me again. Without her, im nothing, shes my rock, she is the most amazing friend any guy could have.

I wanna make up with her, but I dont know if she wants to?

What do I do? Do i send her another message, or go with the flowers option? Maybe one of you guys have a plan of your own?

PLEASE, help me.
Kev
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