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Originally Posted by Kev
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Originally Posted by Tashjbj
Well, from a woman's point of view. I would say leave it for maybe another day. Woman and men tend to handle arguments differently. A man is usually ready to forgive and forget after an argument and a woman usually stews for a couple of days before calming down. I think she is just giving you the silent treatment at the moment and is not willing to back down just yet. At work, don't ignore her, but don't pretend like nothing has happened (we hate that!!), then if possible on Saturday, go round to her house and ask if you two can talk. Bt then she will have calmed down. I also think there are so other issues at hand, if you've had 3 arguments in one week, try and get her to talk about it and remember to stay calm, do not get defensive or try and justify your behaviour (not saying you are wrong!!). I'm sure if you talk it out it will be fine. Also try and talk on neutral ground, take her at for coffee or a drink, that doesn't give one person the edge, so to speak.
Hope this helps some.
Tash
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thanks to everyone has replied so far...
Tash...that sounds lik an excellent plan, cheers. Personally I wanna leave it for another day, but at the same time, I dont want her to think, that I dont care...which I do...an awful lot. I havent been eating as well, as I normally have, and woke up at 6am this morning without going back to sleep, coz of sheer worrying.
Even me mum says, that the flowers on one hand, are a good idea, yet its a bit heavy as RichieW2001 says. I also think sending flowers is a bit "boyfriend-girlfriend" type thing, but its nothing like that and surely she would stil appreciate them?!?!
Whatever I do, i dont wanna leave it too long, coz the longer I was to leave it, the worse it will get...for both of us. |
I wouldn't do the flowers just yet. It is a bit heavy and if she's still miffed she might see that as you trying to buy her off, if you know what I mean.. women are strange! I would say, wait until you've made up and then send the flowers, that way she will see that you made the effort to talk it out and the flowers are just an extra apology. I am positive that she will appreciate you talking it out more than flowers. Just give it another day.
Tash