Not being overly empathetic is just a thign some people do.

My next door neighbour died a coupla weeks ago. i barely knew her, i feel sorry for her daughter but that's about it. She was a very sick woman and her passing is in a small way, a blessing in disguise.

exact same thing here. same thing with my gran when she goes.

I'd rather just say fair enough it's not very nice but in the end, i'm not going to lose any sleep over it.