I think it is a case of finding what your interests and beliefs are, I think a lot of people look in the wrong places, for example if you dont want a beer swilling clubbing sad dick head then dont look for guys at clubs or pubs.

I have only ever been in a serious relationship where the man has been a friend first for months, this way you know them as friends and see how they relate to their x,s family, jobs and beliefs.

People get involved to quickly now . whats the hurry , better to take you time and spend the rest of your life with the right man rather than a he will do for now and get stuck with the wrong one.

Dawn