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Originally Posted by inge
I don`t want to defend myself agianst you, you were not there and yes they all did hear the stories from both side. And no I don`t feel quilt, I don`t want to talk about it anymore cause I have been talking about that for 6 months now. My former colleges admitted they were very wrong and they did that because they were jealous. And because they loved to talk about others and...because they judged without knowing. And that`s what you are doing right now.
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I never said you needed to defend yourself against me just because of your career steps. I do wonder though if they heard the stories from both side from your moth or from both mouths. People often admit they were wrong after getting what they wanted (which was appearantly getting rid of you) since they forget the terrible things and suddenly feel sorry for the person they did the specific things to. But as soon as they find out one thing that caused that specific sort of troubles they're upset again in the highest form.
And I don't judge without knowing, I never judged the entire situation and gave clear statements about it. I only said that when people know they will be asked about several bad things that happened before in a same sort of situation they're only afraid of explaining it again when they know they are guilty of it too. If you think you're innocent you shouldn't be afraid of telling it but should feel proud you're no longer one of them.
Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan