I never thought this would happen !

During our recent difficult weeks in my family, i did my best to protect the kids from everything, i told about the situation only to people i had to because they were with the kids ... teachers, friends etc ... only a few i knew would talk without really knowing what was happening, these ones i thought let them talk ... They thought we were separated with my husband and that's all .... we're not hte first after all .... !

But now the story is known by everyone because there was an article in the newspaper. Why ? Is it because someone just did his job, took the names and stories at the court and print his article, is this allowed ?
or is it more than that ? i haven't seen the article myself yet.
But people like this sort of thing, kids are talking too, i can't protect mine anymore. Don't know what to do.
Someone at school shouted it on the car park in front of everyone .......... Rachel was with me. I don't know who i can trust or not, who are the friends ? These persons are so bored, we give them something to talk about, better than they never had in ages. They don't care if my kids are hurt by this.

I need to find this article, and if something in it is not allowed, the lawyer will do her job ... but it won't change the fact now, we can't live here anymore.
All our efforts to re create our family are ruined. I'm starting to feel bad again, can't do all i have to do, too stressed etc .... it's horrible.
I'd like to shout at them all to better look in their family or their neighbours, stories like ours are unfortunely everywhere but because they are not in the paper it's not allowed to talk about it in public ! but i can't ! i musn't lose my temper, i must show them we're stronger than that, and they will forget it hopefully and respect us because we went through all this. But it's not me, i'd like to fight, to show them they can't hurt my kids. I can't.
I heard about he article first from someone who never liked me, she is the one who read the newspaper and who talked about the article to each person she could. For someone who don't care of me or my family ..... i think she is really interested.
I told James, just do like Billy Crawford (his hero ) ignore the rumor, he laughed but i hope he will be spared. And Rachel when this b*itch tells to everyone about me and my situation, she is around with the person i leave her when i'm at work. This person tells me i can trust her, she will protect my daughter as much as she can. But the other day she was talking with the b*tch, they were laughing together .... what can i do ? I can't stop working because i don't know where to leave my daughter ....

Any idea ? please .......... what would you do in this situation ?
And what about what the paper did ? is there something i can do ?