What causes gaydom?

Being gay is not an opinion, a crime or a trend, there's nothing to disagree or agree about.


Ponrauil

hey guys
yes i am a 'homophobic' but thats what i was on about the term is wrong. i dont like gays i find it sick and wrong (my opinion everyone is entitled to it).
i dont like them but i'm not afraid of them. which phobia is a fear of something.

also no i dont think they should ride at the back of the bus when i say keep them selves to themselves i mean why do they have to act the way they do when others dont? i mean its the ones that are totally in your face being annoying. for example that dick of big brother kamal or something, those are the types i cant stand. its stupid i've known people who have came out then changed the way they act. just because everyone knows now.

the point i meant about freddy murcury,matt lucas etc is that just because they are gay it doesn't mean i wouldn't like them.
you get people who would maybe like a gay without knowing they but when they come out they hate them and totally change their views on them. i wouldn't do that.

anyway just call it quits there instead of bringing this into a whole debate about poofs because i'll not change my mind and dont expect anyone else to.

What if their new personnality is their real personnality?

Don't you find it just as stupid for someone to pretend to be somebody he/she's not?


Ponrauil

When i hear this sort of thing i always think what about if their kids tell them one day they are gay ???

yea mate i do find it stupid when people act like somehting their not but the way over the top gays act and speak are so much alike with other ones they are just acting like a new type of people and not being themselves.
i mean they change there voice for starters. say someone was about 17 when they come out there is no way someone would put on a voice for all those years just because their gay and trying to cover it up. you know what i mean?
i might sound really 'homophobic' (there is that term again ) but i am not one of those people who would cause trouble for gays if i saw one in the street or bar. i'd just stay away from them unless they were making me uncomfortable. for example my brother feels the same way and he was in a bar and it ws they gays birthday party and he came up to my brother and says"come one how about a birthday kiss?" so my brother headbutted him because he made him uncomfortable when he was mind his own business.
thats what i mean when i say keep them selves to themselves.
another example is the other day in a nightclub there was this gay sailor dressed up in his uniform dance like a right fag which i found disturbing to watch and he was dancing right in front of where i was sitting and waving arms at me and making me uncomfortable the way he ws like coming on to me and i just gave him a look as if to say "f**k off and carried on talking to a mate.
so maybe its the past experiences i've had with them that make me hate them so much.
just the thought of 2 blokes together is sick to me.
if its been proven they cant help it fair enough but it still find it horrible.
but lesbians dont bother me so its wierd (probably because i'm straight ) i know woman who dont like lesbians but have nothing against gay men.

i just think your gay the obsession is obvious

i think that reply was just stupid.
so no one can have an opinon on something in you eyes?
i have no obsession with it.
the only reason i am posting here is to reply to others replying to me.

nobody said you should think about 2 blokes together. Besides, a gay person might find it sick to think of a guy with a girl.... should they demand that heterosexuals do not kiss in public or hold hands because they find it 'disturbing'?

What you don't get is that your actions are viewed as weird and strange by somebody else. Everybody is. The world is too diverse (if you haven't noticed) - yet, you claim that your way of acting is right and normal and non-offensive to others. Well, that is just wrong. I am certain I could find a culture that will find your actions as disgusting.

The behavior that offends you that gays exhibit is how straight men behave every single day. I cannot recount how often a guy in a bar came up to me asking for a kiss or demanding a kiss or shoving his drunk sweaty body into mine. I call them assholes. I don't say all straight men are assholes.

Rude behavior is rude no matter who exhibits it. You shouldn't point out their sexual orientation when pointing out rude behavior. Just you don't point out their color of skin or nationality.

that was the best thing I've ever ready by you

Well isn't that quite hypocritical? You are basically saying it isn't ok for men to be with men, but women together is ok?

i understand what you guys are saying and i am not trying to offend anyone. i am just stating my opinion. i'm not the kind of person to offend anyone intentionally. so i hope there are no hard feelings here.