What is it that you find sexy in a person?

smile and eyes on the outside. honesty and charm from the inside.

For me "sexy" is just a moment, "attractive" is forever.

You can meet someone who is really attractive. Something from the inside or the outside from that person really attracts you, makes you interested in some ways maybe...

But "sexy" is in my opinion when someone (attractive or not) puts on something, or does something, that really excites you.

Now what I find very sexy (and I don't know if there are many people on this world who feel the same) is when a girl shows off one or two shoulders. This really excites me so that's what I would call sexy.

good move kath!

On a physical level, I like guys with lighter hair and eyes. Plus, nice arms do a lot for me. Personality wise, I like someone who can make me laugh. Someone that I don't have to try to hard to have a conversation with. And honesty is a huge requirement in any relationship, whether it be friend, family or lover.

Physically I tend to go for girls with dark hair and tanned skin, but in some cases girls with blonde hair and fair skin can be just as attractive. For me true beauty is when a girl has either just got up, or for some reason hasn't had chance to attend to her looks, and she still looks attractive and sexy.

Personality wise I'm really attracted to girls who are comfortable within themselves, and are not constantly worrying about how they look, or their clothes, etc. I also find someone with a dry sense of humour quite attractive too. Somebody how can make jokes that you have to think about and then you see the funny side. Obviously I go for intellegence, ambition, politeness, and caring people too, but I wouldn't consider those qualities as being sexy.

Unfortunately for me I found a girl that was nearly all of the above, that actually liked me too, and blew my chance with her. No good dwelling on the past though.

The way they look (and I don't mean the looks then )

The eyes for sure ,i can tell alot from someones eyes

Personality; nice, funny, confident (not too full of himself, though), comfortable to be with, happy.

Physical; natural looking hair -- no gel no spray no color...just the goddang beauty of beautiful hair.