What is it that you find sexy in a person?

how can i know? i don"t have breasts?


seriously....all men see the breasts 1st..i have a friend who choose the girl by breasts....he says "when we"re havin sex..it vis dark..u can"t see a face...but sure u can touvh those incredible cups"

i was amazed //no one said "breasts"?? strange?? all u guys go & have sex with handicapped girl....we ain"t talkin bout soul mate..talkin bout sexy CHICKS

Some people find sexy only the people who have other assets than mere looks. ('other assets' and 'looks' are very subjective concepts anyway) People who are good-looking might not be sexy at all (David Beckham, most boyband members) and people who aren't good-looking might be incredibly sexy (Gerard Depardieu). For me, charisma is what makes a person sexy and attractive. Of course I have external features that make a man sexy (eyes, hands, chest/shoulders, butt, mouth), but only men with those qualities plus charisma are sexy or attractive in my books.

I have in all silence conducted an (admittedly a very limited) survey "breasts or butt" among men, and 100% of my (admittedly a very limited number of) informants answered butt! I myself was quite surprised by that, but men know best what men like.

So, breasts or butt?

god! u took it all seriously....breasts or butts...are u gonna give me a girl cutted in two pieces...i mean okk if that"s the matter..i will take the bottom part...

Tell him to put the light on, too sad to miss something like that ....

not seriously at all, sorry if it sounded like I did

just a little bit of fun...

So still 100% for the butt department, and more depth to my survey

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.......he is ugly & he knows that..

Depends. Which one's better?

Anyway, I agree with the charisma thing, but I also think people want to give out a better picture of themselves. Everyone judges everyone based on looks. It's not the only thing, but it matters a lot. I don't think anyone of us would spend a lifetime with a person who's so ugly you have to close your eyes when you're making love. That kind of thing just won't last.

Ice

I was once told by an Irish art teacher that I looked like Gerard Depardieu and I wasn't too happy at the time!

Somepeople apparently spend a lifetime making love to people who are possibly "conventionally" or thought to be by the majority "ugly", but they obviously don't think so themselves to do it!

Butt / Breasts - I honestly think neither matters... as long as everything is in proportion and that that person has much more to them than just looks then that's what people should want. Who the hell would want for example Jordan, the model... she'd perhaps be a lot more attractive if she could talk properly, had some sort of personality, had some sort of intelligence, and had assets in proportion to her body... I don't find her attractive, but apparently millions of other men do.