Im worried about telling her cos she doesnt know that anyone but her friend she sent the email 2 know shes gay. That is a good idea to get her to tell them she isnt really but then again if she is why have to hide it from her "friends"? If i tell her it all my other friends will go totally mad and said that the girl who is gay knows people that will beat them up and blah blha.As much as they are being really out of order i dont want them to get beaten up u know? I dont know why but people arent going round spreading it cos they would rather play along and get a big laugh out of it at the end. I tried to hint to my gay friend that she knows she can tell me anything, cos i figured if she knew i know it would be easier to tell her wots going on but she said theres nothing to tell me.