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Old 01-05-2007, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted by spunkywho View Post
Oh what CRAP!!!!!

People who commit suicide will OFTEN have told their family and friends about their plans.

Here is a website with tons of information:

http://www.suicide.org/suicide-myths.html

hope it helps.
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a suicide threat should always be taken seriously, they may not go ahead with the idea straight after theyve spoke to you but theres always tomorrow, or the day after or a few months down the line.
i am not saying it shouldnt be taken seriously, i said try not to leave her alone or call her cause theres nothing else u can do really, and most times it's, as someone said, a cry for help and attention. someone in my family won't go through an argument without threatening to end her life, and yes it scares me, and yes i'm always worried but what can i do.. just hope she doesn't and keep an eyes on her, keep her busy and "make her happy" but don't talk to her about it, she'd just feel like a freak who needs help cause, "poor her, she isn't ok"
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Old 01-05-2007, 10:06 PM
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I think Katheleen touched on this already but I was very suicidal for a time and what really turned it around for me was when I realised that it wasn't that I no longer wanted to be alive, it was that I just I couldn't take living the way I was anymore. It may seem so simple and obvious but when you feel like that, you're not thinking clearly at all, everything is a mess because things are overwhelming and that one piece of clarity can change everything.

So basically just asker does she want to die or does she want to be happy? I could probably garauntee she'll say the later and once she realizes that, she should start to change her focus to making her life better. Also, try and help her to seek some sort counselling with a professional.
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Old 01-06-2007, 03:52 PM
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She is alright.... although i got worried when she didn't come to work y'day. But still she is no happy with the situation and her parents are making her too hard to handle... But I talked to her... hopefuly she will be alright.
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