Whats the point of life anymore?

I can say, with absolute certainty, that guys are not worth getting too upset over

Keep On Rockin'

thats total bullshit and i don't evenm feel any sympathy for you.

a friend of mine i grew up with had real problems and he killed himself, for u to do that or say ur going to do it over some guy is total shit.

you're 25 not 14 for ****sake.

Ok Jim, I understand, but she certainely wrote that when she was so down, unfortunely some people can do this sort of mistake even just because of a heartache. I guess we all know how it can hurt but we also know time helps a lot, after the first "shock" she was bad, and apparently angry, she needed a bit of comfort .....

true jess but personally i take that as an insult to people who have real problems and end up taking their lives.

Yes, I know, after her accident, my sister never told things like that, never, and she can't walk, can't talk, can't use her right arm anymore, but she's unbelievable !!! i just think Lulu thinks her problems are real ones, she can't see any solutions i guess.

Well if this guy has treated you that way he is obviously not the guy for you, even though you thought he was. I know it's a real shame when you really love someone and somehow you can't be with them, I have been there.

I've been single all my life, and always been afraid to approach people, until one day a girl that I worked with, who I really really like approached me. I mean I liked her more than anyone in my life and she had everything every guy wanted, but I was too afraid to speak to her. She told me that she liked me, and misses me when we are not working together. I was stood montionless and couldn't bring anything to my tongue. Then we got interrupted so I was left having to get back to her, and I could never bring myself to approach her and tell her how I felt about her properly. I know it's stupid, and I actually tried once, but I just ended up getting her attention, and standing there montionless again. I was too afraid to do anything, and mezmerised, by her good looks, and just by the way she was smiling at me. Then two months later I found out she was with another guy, and I cried soo much for soo long, because I knew that I could have been with her, and that it was my fault that I wasn't. She ended up getting engaged, and is now living in Leeds (50 miles away) with him. I felt so stupid, and like I'd shot myself through the heart. The pain didn't go away for a long time, but eventually it did. I still think a lot about her, but I no longer see her, which makes it easier, and the pain is no more.

My advice to you in your situation is to be around your friends as much as you can, and try not to see that guy anymore. The less you see him, the less you think about him, the less the pain will be. Good luck. don't be afraid to contact me if you wanna talk.

Email - robgreen01@email.com
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Thank you for your messages. I am now sober and feel numb.

I am not going to do anything stupid, i will not let a man control me like that.

I know deep down that I will get over this one day, but I just had to express how I was feeling at the time. Jim, I am sorry I offended you, I can see what you are saying, but last night my world fell apart and I needed a friend. I know I sounded dramatic, but I cant help how I felt at the time. I understand that my problems may sound trivial, but isnt this place about expressing how we feel? Sorry if I offended anyone who read that.

Anyway I have been told by my friends that I am going out on monday night, getting glammed up and finding a new man. I can think of nothing worse right now, but I'll keep you all posted.

Thank you again. x

I didn't want to say you were maybe a bit drunk too
I'm glad to hear you're feeling better and don't try to find "the" man just have fun !!!

no offence was intended but in light of my experiences and the fact that we're remembering millions of people who died fighting for a cause tomorrow, i just found the idea of you saying whats the point of living because some guy dumped u pretty inconsiderate and distasteful.