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Old 10-21-2003, 09:24 PM
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Oh, and BTW, every guy wants to get in your pants. No matter what they tell you. They might not even know it themselves, but once the situation comes around, they'll go for it. As long as you know it, it's not a problem.

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What I'm saying is that men have built in their system the need to mate. Same as women. And even though this is going to sound sexist and rude, biologically thinking men need to mate with as many partners as they can, women need to give birth to as many childern they can. Therefore men want to mate all the time, women when they're not pregnant. And don't come jumping on me because of this, it's not my idea.
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The question here was about friendship. Can a guy and a girl be friends without wanting to have sex? I think not, at least not for the guys. I might never happen, but if given the right circumstances, it would.
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You've got it in your heads that every guy feels the same as you do and try to attribute that to some "inherant sexual characteristic of males".



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Old 10-21-2003, 09:26 PM
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What I'm saying is that men have built in their system the need to mate. Same as women. And even though this is going to sound sexist and rude, biologically thinking men need to mate with as many partners as they can, women need to give birth to as many childern they can. Therefore men want to mate all the time, women when they're not pregnant. And don't come jumping on me because of this, it's not my idea.
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The question here was about friendship. Can a guy and a girl be friends without wanting to have sex? I think not, at least not for the guys. I might never happen, but if given the right circumstances, it would.
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I see you've got a problem with understanding what you read. I bolded out bits where you should really pay attention. You'll probably do better next time. Try again.

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I'm not jumping on you because it's YOUR idea - I was merely responding because you share that idea!
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I think guys have a problem about being honest in this regard.

Ice is completely right - doesn't mean guys are sickos or something.

Why do men act like women sometimes and get totally defensive over something so true and NOT deragatory at all ??
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I'm not jumping on you because it's YOUR idea - I was merely responding because you share that idea!
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You've got it in your heads that every guy feels the same as you do and try to attribute that to some "inherant sexual characteristic of males".
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And, Spunky, I don't know. It seems the ones who've experienced more know this as a natural thing, some are still fighting against it.

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You've got it in your heads that every guy feels the same as you do and try to attribute that to some "inherant sexual characteristic of males".
There.

And, Spunky, I don't know. It seems the ones who've experienced more know this as a natural thing, some are still fighting against it.

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