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Old 06-25-2005, 06:56 PM
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You know that is crap. You've told Alex to take it up with Peter B4 her puh leaze comment.

You are offended by Alex' post because you are taking it personal. Russ shut up about it and you were able to let it go.

That's all there is to it.


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I suggest you reread the thread because you are wrong about the timing. You're also wrong about my taking this personally or being offended. I'm not offended, maybe a little irritated that people are making a mountain out of a molehill, but not offended. I'm answering the questions. Beyond what I or another mod can answer, she has the right to go to a higher authority to voice her complaints about the policy. I didn't create it, but I do remove links like I'm supposed to do when I find them. I, nor the other mods, will stop removing links based on what anyone but Peter says.

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Old 06-25-2005, 07:15 PM
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thankyou for explaining Becky that no ebay links are allowed anymore.
I thought it must be a new rule. Peter makes the rules and I know as mods you have to follow them.

It can be difficult to implement sudden new rules, board users are bound to question them when they have always be able to post ebay links before.

Perhaps new rules should be announced or at least a list of rules posted up . I have suggested this previously to Peter.... Anyway we all know now.

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Old 06-26-2005, 05:54 AM
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Old 06-27-2005, 12:44 AM
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Gee, I missed al the fun here.

Becky, Maria might have been a little off when it comes to the time frame, but she was right when she said I just voiced my opinion. I don't think I held you or any other mod responsible for this rule, I just stated that I find it stupid. That's all.
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Alex, the implied tone of your voicing your opinion came across as complaints, so I directed you to a higher authority. It's as simple as that.

Then someone else became involved and declared that I'm taking it as a personal attack, which I was not. What Maria said is something I did take personally. She, afterall, ventured to declare the innermost workings of my psyche. Even though she was wrong, she still assumed what I was thinking and feeling and stated it as if it were a fact. That was personal. Your complaints were not and I did not respond to them as if they were.

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Old 06-27-2005, 05:38 AM
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Alex, the implied tone of your voicing your opinion came across as complaints, so I directed you to a higher authority. It's as simple as that.

Then someone else became involved and declared that I'm taking it as a personal attack, which I was not. What Maria said is something I did take personally. She, afterall, ventured to declare the innermost workings of my psyche. Even though she was wrong, she still assumed what I was thinking and feeling and stated it as if it were a fact. That was personal. Your complaints were not and I did not respond to them as if they were.

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I don't see anything different in Alex' tone than anybody elses.

Yours on the other hand, comes off as very defensive. Sorry, but that is how it seems... and I can say that without bothering to decipher your innermost psyche, which I have no desire to do so.
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Old 06-27-2005, 06:27 AM
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You don't see "PUH LEAZE" as a different tone than anyone else's? Interesting. It's true that we all read things differently, though.

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You are offended by Alex' post because you are taking it personal.
Sounds like you're deciphering my thoughts and feelings there.

But God forbid you just admit you were wrong. YOU are the only one who got personal here.

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You don't see "PUH LEAZE" as a different tone than anyone else's? Interesting. It's true that we all read things differently, though.

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You are offended by Alex' post because you are taking it personal.
Sounds like you're deciphering my thoughts and feelings there.

But God forbid you just admit you were wrong. YOU are the only one who got personal here.

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ah, yeah right.

sorry you are so easily offended, Becky. I wish you wouldn't, cause the whole thing is way too silly.

One last time, I truly - honestly - completely am not interested in deciphering your thoughts and feelings. It's meaningless, impossible and not particularly worthwhile to do so on a message board.

Yes, you are right, I did take your comments personal - cause they were, you even addressed them to me

There is nothing to be wrong about, Becky. You come off defensive - that's all - you can say you aren't - there is no right or wrong. Why must you try to put things in such categories? Hold it - I don't even care (not trying to decipher your psyche).
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Old 06-27-2005, 07:05 AM
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I didn't take anything personally except your telling me I was taking things personally. LOL That's actually kind of funny if you think about it.

You were wrong about when I told Alex to take it up with Peter and that messed up your theory about my taking it personally.

But whatever. Let's move on. Let's plan our trip to Alaska instead.

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Let's plan our trip to Alaska instead.

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