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Originally Posted by ponrauil
My advice is to talk to him about and agree that you should keep everything off until the end of the project you're both full time on. If "love" is strong enough it can wait even though you can't
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Dude!!! This is sooooo pre-mature. We don’t talk about ‘it’. We pretend it isn’t happening. We don’t acknowledge it. We just stand too close, talk too much, smile at each other too intensely… you know….
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Then when that project is over and before even thinking of starting a new one in the same conditions, re-consider your potential relationship, discuss the consequences with him and agree on the different options (you both change jobs, one of you has to make a sacrifice, you both keep your jobs), and if it still goes forward between the two of you, advise your boss(es) about the whole situation. He/she will only have the possibility to acknowledge you both acted professionally.
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No no no … this can’t be happening!!! I can’t start a relationship with him … I just need to get over it….. The mere thought about it scares the shit out of me!!!! :S
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I think that's the "win-win" option...
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getting over it and ignoring it sounds like win-win to me
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Originally Posted by DevilsSon
ah, finally something interesting going on on this board. It had to be spunky
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naturally
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Originally Posted by DevilsSon
however, i always perceived it as a thrill to try to hook up with a superior, whoever that was ...teacher, professor, advisor, consultant...
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see that is what I am keeping in mind also. He most definitely is fully aware on the affect he has on women! I’ve been paying attention and he most definitely uses his charm, smile, eyes to his advantage. I don’t know if it is just a thrill to him or even just ‘him’ – charming the women…. You know… I’ve done the same before *gulp*…
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Originally Posted by DevilsSon
hope that guy is older than me though
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*swallows hard* how old are you? *blushes* …..
Age obviously being another factor why I can’t go there…. Though he truly is so way more mature than a lot of guys his age….