Aloha !
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Originally Posted by Milotic
My girlfriend is jobless (she's 21) and I don't mind. I love her, and if she and I would get married a few years later, it wouldn't matter whether she has a job or not. I love her, that's all that matters. <3
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Sure it is, buddy. Let's see what it's like once you've been working for a few years and haven't been able to spend any money on things for yourself because you've "had" to spend it all on your beloved girlfriend. The love you've got for her will make room for the frustration she creates as your own comfortable life has come to an end.
Many many years ago I had a girlfriend who refused to work in the weekends she was off from school, yet still thought I was the one who was supposed to work for our days out as "I clearly could afford it". Mind you, I was in school as well, yet worked 2 to 3 days a week at the same time. Once I told her I kind of expected her to bring in some money her attitude towards this quickly changed, as the money she worked for "was her money".
Yeah...
I still don't mind working and paying for things when a significant other doesn't have or can't get a job, and I love buying a girl gifts. But I do expect something in return at the same time (cleaning or cooking etc.). This might sound disrespectful towards women, but I feel it's disrespectful towards men to expect them to pay for your holidays and nights out when you spend your days watching TV while I'm at work. That's just not what society is supposed to be like, it should be going both ways.
Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan