I think mostly you just want to get laid. lol.

Secondly, you want to have fun, though the thought of it scares you as it isn't something you are comfortable with, having been in a serious relationship for so long and so on. Hence, you are struggling with the 'just fun' part vs. the 'not using somebody' part and you are having trouble aligning the two. :wink:



Or am I talking about myself???

Would work for the both of you , wouldn't it?

If you're aware of it, what's missing for you to make progress on the matter?

Ponrauil

years of extensive therapy, I am afraid.

and a man ;)


have you been keeping an eye out for a suitable guy for me??? :D

I didn't know you wanted me too but I will :wink: .

Did a friend or a family member ever set up a date for you?

Ponrauil

friend yes :roll: talking about embarrassing. my boss even :roll: lol.

I've told them if they set me up one more time I'll cancel my friendship....



do you think dating gets more complicated the older one gets?

No idea

V why u think it get complicated with age?

Might be because you have more expectations and are not so easily led too.






Do you think people expect too much of you?

I dunno.

In some ways people expect alot of me in that I'm the oldest guy in the family apart from my dad and I'm at uni n stuff and in other ways I **** up or people think I need looked after when I don't really.

it's a bit half and half really.

V ever get the feeling that it's goign to be one of those days?

Oh yes indeed firstly my dog hurts his paw then the kids play up real bad ,then get to work and some idiot has parked their car in the way.





do you think your going to have one of those days?

well im already 2 hours into one of them.

but i digress, life goes on as do politics lecturers. I'm off

V will you think up a question for me?