exact same as you. I get addicted to stuff way too easilly and I dont have a particular lust for it so why bother?

I fancy going to the casino up here since its slightly harder to find the money to spend in there constantly than down the dogtrack or bookies.

V should junkies who give birth to kids suffering from withdrawal symptoms have their babies taken off them?

yes - at least until they are clean themselves - isn't that what is commonly done? I mean, how could a junkie possibly take care of a newborn?

why are people so selfish and ruin their childrens lives just because they are too shitty to pucker up and do what is right?

i don't have a clue but there was a woman in that programme i was talkign about who was a junkie and the kid wouldnt stop crying and spasming becauseit was withdrawing. The kids father actually turned up to the birth out of his tree.

its tragic

V should I be worried that Ash has decided little kiddies are lovely and wants one as soon as she graduates?

yes - kids should come in your late 20s that will still be plenty early. Have her start a babysitting job that will cure her :D


how many kids do you want?

2 or 3. not really bothered as long as I get a boy.

sad as it sounds i want to show him how to play football and guitar and teach him how to fight if he ever needs it. cant do much of that with girls. id probably feel a little out of my depth since im pretty backwards and set in my ways.

V you want any brothers or sisters for the little chap?

I always wanted a few kids, like 2 or 4.

Now I am not sure - I don't think I'd fancy the whole pregnancy thing again and changing diapers and all that. Not too keen on it, but then with the right man - maybe - though, as it is that I vowed to never get tied down with a man again that is kind of out as well.

YOu know you can teach girls too how to play football (particularily euro footy) and guitar. It is always good to know self-defense being a girl....


is it important to get married?

I like the idea of it more as showing commitment than the religious ideals but i totally respect the religious sentiment behind it too and I have a big problem with gay marriages in churches. they can do it anywhere they like but if a church is against gay people, whether thats wrong or not, it's not particularly polite to be having a wedding in it.

V get my reasoning or just more idiotic logic from myself?

well there are non-denominational churches - wouldn't that be more appropriate?

I have no problem with gays marrying anywhere. More power to them.


I saw this show like "hollywoods best kept secrets" and it showed this model and bond girl that used to be a man. She was gorgeous. Once they found out she used to be a man she didn't get any more acting roles or modeling roles.

Is that wrong?

yeah but if people know then there's a stigma attached. its wrong but people wont go and see a movie where the leading lady used to have a dick y know.

there's actually a "woman" who used to be a man on big brother just now and if I was in there I'd be totally offended when I found out. (shes not tellign anyone until she pulls or so she says) because she's basically lied to me and if shes prepared to tell several million people watchign then she cant claim its her own business in the house y know.

V what do you think?

well if she is a women now how did she lie? or did she say I've always been a women .... no?

I don't know - I'd be a bit freaked out if I found out the guy in my bed used to be chick, though I don't want to be judgemental at all. Personally, I'd rather made love to a women than a man turned women.

yes, I think something like that needs to be discussed before.


are gays allowed to marry in britain?