What is it that you find sexy in a person?
 

We all have different ideas of 'sexyness' or 'attractiveness'. What some people find attractive is for some the opposite or indifferent. What is it that you find sexy in a person?

Intelligence, kindness, compassion, openess.... being able to connect on a deeper level than just the physical. However, if you're asking what I find physically attractive, I tend to go for guys with light hair and eyes and I've noticed that most of my crushes have been on guys with glasses.

Becky

I always liked dark haired dark eyed Italian men to look at but I married a British guy with light brown hair for all the reasons that Becky listed above. In the end (in my case anyway) looks meant very little.

Kathleen

I like when a guy can make me smile not being silly, intelligence and sence of humour. Phisically (and i think that's what you mean with "sexyness" ;)) I like to see a guy with strong shoulders and chest, but i think i dont have only one thing that attracts me on a person, it's the whole thing that has to be special lol

Someone who can make me laugh, and who is honest. :D

someone who can make me laugh and who has a great smile.

Just a comment: no I didn't mean just physically, I think sexyness is a combination of a lot of things, some based on looks some not.

aside from the looks... for me its when he can make me laugh and he also needs to be intelligent :)

Charisma, presence, voice, looks, behaviour and actions - that is what I find sexy and I find all of those qualities as perfection - epitomised in Laura. I don't believe dress sense etc, aftershave/perfume... hair gel, makeup makes someone sexy. To me sexy is inextricably linked to beauty, and if a girl can look as beautiful in the morning as she does when she's supposedly at "her best" then that is true beauty and that is what I find sexy. Fortunately, again... that's what makes me the happiest and most humbly grateful person in the world.

Eyes, (cos thats usually the first thing you notice), a nice friendly smile and someone who can make me laugh.