What should I do?
 

Ok heres my problem...

One of my friends wrote an email to her friend asking if she would be more then friends with her (they are both girls) so she said no and she printed the email out and shew loads of people at my school and asked everyone not 2 say anything. When my best friend found out she went on one of the sites that she knows the girl goes on and made up an acount pretended she wos another lesbian girl and started talking dirty yo her to she wot she says, so the girl spoke dirty back, my friend printed out the conversation and again shew everyone. My friend has been speaking 2 her other "friend" thinking shes someone else for ages because wot they are planning on doing is going along with it for as long as they can and then gonna ask her to meet her and then they are all gonna laugh at her and gonna stick copies of the email and the conversation all on the school walls. Now ive been trying to stay out of it all but my best mate and the others who are involved are trying to get me to do it with them but i feel so sorry for the girl, they are spos to be her friends! so i feel really guilty but also dont want to say anything cos my other friends will get mad at me for saying anything. What should i do? Hope it all amde sense BTW.

aww man that is absolutely lowball stuff.

u sound like the only person here that genuinely cares about what happens to this girl and somethign like that happening to her could really and i mean REALLY **** her up big style.

i suggest wot u do is tell her what they're doing but dont let her know how vicious they're being just tell her their winding her up trying to get her to meet and have a lauch with her and tell the girl to tell the person that either shes not gay and was just a bit confused or something or just say she was having a laugh pretending (of course she wont tell ur mates that r doing it that she knows its them)

or u could tell her the full script and just suggest she totally ignores the people when theyre online so they cant get anything else on her.

thats not totally covering her back but it seems the best idea to me.

and why the **** was ur best friend going about showing and tellign people anyways as if they wouldnt go about spreading it?

Im worried about telling her cos she doesnt know that anyone but her friend she sent the email 2 know shes gay. That is a good idea to get her to tell them she isnt really but then again if she is why have to hide it from her "friends"? If i tell her it all my other friends will go totally mad and said that the girl who is gay knows people that will beat them up and blah blha.As much as they are being really out of order i dont want them to get beaten up u know? I dont know why but people arent going round spreading it cos they would rather play along and get a big laugh out of it at the end. I tried to hint to my gay friend that she knows she can tell me anything, cos i figured if she knew i know it would be easier to tell her wots going on but she said theres nothing to tell me.

if they didn't want beat up they shouldnt be ****ing with the girl. rule of the jungle 1. dont smoke another mans cigar. if ur going to do stuff like that then u have to face the consequences.

this girls done nothing wrong but shes going to get totally humiliated whereas ur friends know full well that they're out of order. who's back should u be watching?

seriously te best thing for u to do is say listen i know ur gay, she showed us the email, its not a problem but they're doing this to u....

saying she should tell u's pretty void i mean pout urself in her shoes. not the easiest thing to tell people espescially at that age. a girl i grew up with came out a while ago but it was after she left school for obvious reasons and one of my best mates brothers just came out tho everyone knew he was gay anyways and hes graduated uni for over a year.

high school isnt the best of places to be telling the world ur gay.

Shit these guys are supose to be her friends? Sorry Jade but they need a good smack. I think the best thing to do is just tell her what your friends are planning on doing. If your friends fall out with you your still the better person and if your that worried tell the lesbian friend not to tell them you told her. Good luck and you have a PM babe.

Oh and good luck with you know who also.

thanks 4 ur help i know they need a bigg smack! oh ive kinda given up on him i dont wanna but if hes gonna be a pratt ill leave him 2 it :(